Saturday, November 24, 2012

LEAVING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE


In the summer of 1971 the Bank of NSW gave Australians first loan to a woman without a male guarantor.
1973 saw Australia’s very first women’s shelter open for women wanting to leave violent homes.
It wasn’t until the late 1980’s that rape within a marriage became a crime in all Australian jurisdictions.
The last 40 years has seen women gain independence and freedom within society, this gain in power has seen resources established for the ongoing support of woman in society. But even though women of today have more support than ever to escape abusive relationships, it hasn’t meant the abuse has stopped.

Often when we hear of a domestic abuse situation, we’re quick to ask, why doesn’t she leave him? Instead of asking, why doesn’t he stop?
White Ribbon Day tomorrow is a male led campaign that focuses on violence against women.
 “Domestic violence includes physical, verbal, emotional abuse, stalking, abduction and confinement, deprivation of culture and spiritual rights, humiliation, harassment, intimidation, denial of access to money, resources, isolation from support, sexual abuse and assault, including rape and incest, threat or actual abuse, and as part of the continuum of violence, murder.”         -NSW Women’s Refuge Movement
Radio National’s Natasha Mitchell, interviews the CEO of the NSW’s Women’s Refuge Movement Tracy Howe and Jennifer on leaving a domestic violence relationship. Listen to it here on the link below.

 
 
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Sunday, November 18, 2012

OUR OCTOBER AND NOVEMBER COVER GIRLS

 
Both the October and November cover girls are women that are seen to have that all encompassing power and command that women strive to achieve in their lives. That’s great, but then there’s love.
Miranda’s found it – good for her, but pre Bloom was Adrian Camilleri who was locked up for fraudulent behavior. And Jen, now engaged, but for years the media portrayed her as being ‘unlucky in love.’

Society puts a lot of pressure on both men and woman to find love. But what happens when Mr Right turns out to be Mr Oh so wrong. No matter how greater command a woman has on her life, when she’s in love with someone that becomes abusive towards her, it’s a painful mess of a journey before she is emotionally set free.

November’s issue of Marie Claire touched on domestic violence in the special report ‘Why I Finally Left’ by Sabrina Rubin Erdely. The article tells how Mary Clemons finally escaped her husband’s abuse.
November also marks White Ribbon Day on the 25th. White Ribbon is a male-led campaign to change the attitudes and behaviours that lead to and perpetuate violence against women.
Their social media campaign gets people to submit an oath on the White Ribbon website. By submitting your name, you swear an oath to never commit, excuse or remain silent about violence against women.  Currently over 56,000 people have sworn this oath on the White Ribbon website.  
For October/November I’m highlighting White Ribbon and The Women’s Refugee Movement. I’m also cutting up both issues to collage postcards. I’ll keep ya posted
 
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Saturday, September 29, 2012

SEPTEMBER ORIGAMI

According to Septembers issue of Marie Claire 'distinctly oriental aesthetic emerged from autumn/winter 2012/13 collections.' So oriental is the theme I decided to use.

Origami - a great way to recycle paper! It's time consuming but creatively satisfying. Cutting up the oriental themed photoshoot in the September issue, I made three bunting origami chains. I love them so much I'd like to keep them, but I'll sell them instead and the money raised will go to the Ronald McDonald House Learning Program.

 
 
 
 
 
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Wednesday, September 26, 2012

SEPTEMBER RONALD McDONALD LEARNING PROGRAM

For young kids who are sick for extended periods of time, with serious illnesses like cancer or cystic fibrosis, their youth is consumed by illnesses. They’re not only losing their healthy childhoods but also losing crucial parts of their early education.

Ronald McDonald Learning Program is Septembers Ronald McDonald House feature program. The program helps children catch up on learning by funding extra education assistance programs and children who have fallen behind at school due to serious illness.



Eliza story is touching and her and her mother have confidence in Eliza future. With the Ronald McDonald Learning Program they have been able to lessen the affect that Elizas cystic fibrosis has on her life.

Money raised this month will be going to the Ronald McDonald Learning Program to help inprove the lives of young girls and boys similar to Eliza.

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Thursday, August 30, 2012

MARRIGE EQUALITY - Berlin

Me wearing our beautiful necklace
This August I worked alongside Millicent Nobis to create a handmade necklace from my recycled Maire Claire. The necklace represents not only gay pride, but story telling. While photographer Katrina James took the ladies portraits, I had the opportunity to discuss with these five German women, their thoughts on marriage equality in Germany...



No matter where you come from, no matter how lenient your government, no matter how accepting the community, not everyone can feel equal at the same time. In society one group’s detriment is another group’s benefit. There is no better example of this than politics.
 
My discussions with gay women, Lynn, Milena, Esther, Eve and Anna, reaffirmed my belief that it’s sad and pointless to refuse something in the lives of others, when it has no negative effect on your own. “Working against love” is simply not a positive way for anyone to live in this world.
If you want to know, ask, and if you want to learn, listen. I feel very lucky to have had the opportunity to hear the stories of the German women I met through this project. Hearing their opinions has given me a leg to stand on when I say, I think the laws of marriage should be equal in all human relationships.
Some Australians need to shake this idea that marriage belongs to Christians, because it doesn’t. Marriage is a human tradition that binds couples together – and in some cases more than just two people. Over time, marriage has adhered with society to include religion, social laws and social trends. The expectations of what exists within a Western marriage changes from generation to generation, not unlike pubic hair trends. What’s unconventional in one generation is ordinary in the next. We need our legal systems, not just in Australia but also in Germany, to adhere with its people.  All five of these women have different experiences and opinions on marriage but they all want to help others, their motives are obviously considerate.
I’ve come away from July and August with the feeling that we may not see marriage equality and acceptance for same sex couples in Western culture, during my lifetime. However we all wanted to be associated with this cause, because as women, we want to see an understanding society, not just for our generation but for our future generations.

Please scroll down to see the beautiful portraits of the five gay women, who helped me gain an understanding into what marriage equality means in Germany.
 
 
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MARRIAGE EQUALITY - Berlin















Esther von Schlieffn

26

German

"We have to be aware of the fact that we don't have any right to judge on other human beings as long they don't hurt anybody. Being gay is just as normal as being heterosexual - it's just rare."

Read Esther's interview by clicking here















Lynn Lauterbach

29

German


"I think religion and church are a place for everyone, they call, that we have to come in, but then there is no place for you, and this is a little bit sad I think."


Download Lynn's interview by clicking here













 







Eva Loska

 23

German

"I want to have the right to decide who I want to marry and that there is no difference if I choose a women or a man"

Read Eva's interview by clicking here











 







Anna Ley

34

German

"I love women and I stand by it. I would marry but that marriage would still be legally different than a heterosexual one in Germany. If heterosexual marriage and homosexual marriage were indistinguishable under the law, it would be an important step... But of course, such things take a lot of time."

Read Anna's interview by clicking here












Milena Kirsche

20

German

"I think when you really love a person you don't need to marry them. It's just totally conservative. But if you can help someone...then that's great"

Read Milena's interview by clicking here

MARRIGE EQUALITY - Berlin Contributors


Millicent Nobis - Jewellery Designer
 

Millicent Nobis
 
Millicent moved to Berlin, Germany from Sydney in 2010. She is currently working on her jewellery collection Mies Nobis. Millicent approached me about being involved in Recycling My Maire Claire and I was quick to get her on board. Millicent had strong ideas of the necklace she wanted to create from the beginning. And she had no trouble bringing these ideas to life. It's exciting to see the potential a couple of magazines have when put in the right hands.  
 
www.miesnobis.com



Katrina James - Photographer

Katrina James

Katrina James moved to Berlin 2010, she is a documentary and travel photographer from Sydney and when talking to Millicent about needing some great portraits shots for this project, she knew just who to recommend. Katrina loved the idea, and she easily brought the concept to life. Her honest portraits of Lynn, Milena, Eva, Anna and Esther were exactly what the necklace needed.
 
www.illgetyoumypretty.net